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What can parents do about bedwetting?

Bedwetting can be upsetting for children and their families. Some useful tips that you can try are shown below.
  • There are continence health professionals with special training in children's bladder problems - contact the National Continence Helpline for details of a continence health professional in your area.
  • Talk to your child about how their body works, explain what has caused their problem and that they are not to blame.
  • Do things with your child that help them feel good about themselves.
  • Praise your child when they follow the health professional's advice.
  • Help your child to drink regularly throughout the day.
  • Support your child in choosing to become dry and be positive about the treatments they are using.
  • Watch for constipation as this can make the bladder problem worse. Seek medical help if it is an ongoing problem.
  • If your child is using a bedwetting alarm, get up when it goes off and help to wake them up and change their clothes or sheets.
  • Make sure there is enough light at night so it is easy to get to the toilet.

There are some things that don't help, and are not recommended.

  • Don't punish your child for wetting the bed.
  • Don't shame the child in front of family or friends.
  • Don't lift the child out of bed at night to toilet them as a treatment. This may cut down on some wet beds, but it does not help the child learn to be dry.
  • Don't try to fix bedwetting when other family members are going through a stressful time. It's okay to stop for a while and try again during a lessful period.