What can parents do about bedwetting?
Bedwetting can be upsetting for children and their families. Some useful tips that you can try are shown below.
- There are continence health professionals with special training in children's bladder problems - contact the National Continence Helpline for details of a continence health professional in your area.
- Talk to your child about how their body works, explain what has caused their problem and that they are not to blame.
- Do things with your child that help them feel good about themselves.
- Praise your child when they follow the health professional's advice.
- Help your child to drink regularly throughout the day.
- Support your child in choosing to become dry and be positive about the treatments they are using.
- Watch for constipation as this can make the bladder problem worse. Seek medical help if it is an ongoing problem.
- If your child is using a bedwetting alarm, get up when it goes off and help to wake them up and change their clothes or sheets.
- Make sure there is enough light at night so it is easy to get to the toilet.
There are some things that don't help, and are not recommended.
- Don't punish your child for wetting the bed.
- Don't shame the child in front of family or friends.
- Don't lift the child out of bed at night to toilet them as a treatment. This may cut down on some wet beds, but it does not help the child learn to be dry.
- Don't try to fix bedwetting when other family members are going through a stressful time. It's okay to stop for a while and try again during a lessful period.
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