Children

Toilet skills for children with disability

Learning toilet skills can bring independence and inclusion. Some children may need extra time and support to develop these skills.

Learning toilet skills supports independence and inclusion. Children with developmental delays or a disability may need extra time and tailored strategies.

Benefits of toilet learning include:

  • for children – better hygiene, confidence and independence
  • for families – reduced care needs and greater participation.

With patience, consistency and the right support, many children can develop good toilet skills.

All our information on toilet skills comes with additional tips or support options for children with disability.

Where to find help

Partner with health professionals such as a nurse continence specialist, pelvic health physiotherapist, occupational therapist, GP (doctor) or psychologist for support.

You can look for specialists near you in our directory: Find a service provider.

A boy with disability at a kitchen table with his mum

The free and confidential National Continence Helpline is also available. Call 1800 33 00 66 for advice and support on topics including:

Stay positive, collaborate with educators and work toward realistic goals.

Video: Teaching children with disability toilet skills

Debbie Atkins, an occupational therapist and toilet training consultant, talks about toilet training children with incontinence and disability (8mins 30s).

Disability and incontinence

Tips and resources to help you and your family